Real You: So about those New Year resolutions . . .

I used to make a resolution, or several, each year New Year. I know many of you do, too. Unfortunately, this is about the time, the end of January, when those resolutions go bust. My theory. Don't make them and then you can't break them. Don't get me wrong. I'm all about goal setting, and I'm really trying to up my cardio exercise intake this year even with my compete disdain of any type of sweat. But it's not a New Year's resolution. Nope. It's a fitness commitment. Oh, and I've joined a meditation group, too, but that's just something I've wanted to try.

Ok, well, maybe there is a link between the new year and trying some new things. I just prefer to give myself the gift of less pressure than a failed resolution. I'm going to try new things this year. Some I'll stick with; some I won't. But that's ok!  

So if you feel like you've failed on a New Year's resolution, take another approach. Think about some things you doing differently and give yourself a pat on the back. You're turning over a new leaf. It's exciting so give yourself permission to try new things, no matter what you call change.

Real You: Reaching out during the holidays

You may never have the opportunity (optimist in me) to move to a new place during the holidays. But if you, like me, have had that happen, you will realize how much the smallest of gestures mean. It's daunting knowing no one during the season of parties and glee! So here a are a couple of things that have made me smile. The handyman who has been helping me put my life together in our new home invited our family to his family's Christmas party. How nice is that?

An author who I've been friends with on Facebook just sent me a message and invited me for coffee - she actually lives nearby!

These small acts of kindness mean so much, especially when you're new to an area and starting a new life.

What can you do to reach out to someone today?

Real You: A Mother's Day

     This week has been a whirlwind of activity. It was the week of the launch of my dream, my first novel, HERE, HOME, HOPE. The best part of the week has been the support of friends like you, online and off, who have talked, blogged, purchased, attended readings and supported me. Amazing. I'm still pinching myself.      But that's not all. My editor asked a while back if I had written a short story ~ and I had one, but I hadn't shared it. The story is about the different stages of motherhood - told from the point of view of three mothers who each experience the same, life-altering event. It's the story of their reactions, and by reflection, the love each of them has for her son.

     That love, the love of a mother and a son, is at the heart of the A MOTHER'S DAY. And it's at the heart of my life. I have three sons, each as unique, perfect and special as he could be. They are amazing. And as I watch them grow into young men, I marvel. (I also have a daughter I adore, but that's for another story, another post.)

     I hope if you are a mother that you have the most amazing Mother's Day ever. And, if you're looking for a quick read on your new Kindle, I'd love if if you'd consider A MOTHER'S DAY.